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"Life may not be the party we expected, but while we're here we may as well dance."

"Odds are you'll find someone here. But odds are, he'll be odd."
~ Martha, at Glen Echo, telling me what a fellow told her when she started dancing there

"Friedrich Nietzsche thought that to grow beyond his ordinariness, man needed that inner lightness which is the lightness of the dancer."
~ Walter Sorrell, Dance in Its Time

"There is a dancer buried in even the fattest of us."
~ Pamela Brown

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Dancing: A Guide to the Capital Area

You can go dancing every night of the month and many afternoons as well, in the Capital area. You won't find that many politicians on the dance floors I'm familiar with, but you will find a lot of good dancers, and you can hear some of the best dance music in the country. Until I can find the time to update Dancing: A Guide to the Capital Area, I hope these links and pieces on dancing will help you find a place to meet your needs.

This spot on my personal website is a stand-in for Dancing: A Guide to the Capital Area, my information-packed guide to social dancing, mostly in the suburbs of DC. It includes a social history of social dancing in and around Washington, D.C., including the Maryland and Northern Virginia suburbs, describing and listing nearly 200 regular dances, dance groups, and classes in:

International, Cajun, German, Greek, Hungarian, Indian, Israeli, Italian, Polish, Turkish, and Scandinavian folk dancing;

English and Scottish country dancing and Irish ceilis, American squares and contras, morris dancing, and clogging;

Ballroom dancing, swing (East coast and West coast, lindy, jitterbug, shag, and so on--and Charleston), and country western;

And the marvelous Sunday waltzes and LaSalle Band tea dances at Glen Echo Park -- in the Spanish Ballroom and/or the Bumper Car Pavilion (link below), where the contra dances Friday and Sunday evenings are also held, as well as countless swing, ballroom, Cajun, and zydeco dances. Glen Echo's ballroom is generally VERY sweaty in the summer months, as there is no air-conditioning, but as of June 2006 there were six wonderful big standing fans in the ballroom, which suggests that the park management is listening to dancers' suggestions!

This little guide (very slowly being revised, because I am swamped with other work) was most recently available through Travel Books & Language Center, 202-237-1322.

"What an extraordinary job. I can't believe that you've done such a complete search. Very valuable."
-- Dr. Gabe Mirkin, fitness expert

"Well worth the price." --Country Dance & Song Society News

"An essential tool for the neophyte." -- Michael Dolan,author of The American Porch, in Washingtonian Magazine

My favorite dance is the Sunday afternoon waltz at Glen Echo's Spanish Ballroom (or, second Sundays, the ballroom dances to the LaSalle Band's music from the '20s and '30s), with swing and jitterbug a close second -- and little by little (it takes forever)I am learning the Argentine tango. But I've tried most of the kinds of dancing offered in the Washington area --a surprisingly wonderful and affordable venue for dancing. Elsewhere on this site are selections from my guide to dancing in the capital area, which I put together because many of the dances aren't listed in the Post's Weekend Section. (It is their policy to list only dances with live music, although many kinds of dances are done to recorded music, including Argentine tango and many kinds of folk dancing.)

"This guide is as entertaining as it is informative."
--Roberta Gottesman, Finding Fun & Friends in Washington


Books, articles, and more

Dancing, food, good books, and other diversions
Book Groups, Recommended Titles
Favorites of several book groups
Bag lunches (attention, parents!)
What is the single lunch-bag item most hated by all children?
Caviar
What heightens the caviar experience is the price of those little gray or black sturgeon eggs.
Dancing: A Guide to the Capital Area
Links to dancing venues and calendars for the Washington, D.C. area.
Dating -- again!
Midlife "first dates"
Love at First Waltz (by Cheryl Kollin)
Did she fall in love with the man or the waltz?
Swing, lindy, jitterbug, and shag
Also related: jive, hustle, hand-dancing.
Buffalo Gap Dance Camp
All the dancing your feet can take
Ballroom dance
Choosing a school of dance
Portobello mushrooms
The big ones, with dirty stems
Contemporary Latin American Short Stories
“A rich, varied, and highly rewarding collection,” says Joyce Carol Oates
Ceilis
Ceilis (Irish dancing)
Dying, mourning, and other inevitable events
Dying: A Book of Comfort
“This remarkable collection, coming from personal experience and wide reading, will help many find the potential of growth through loss.” —Dame Cicely Saunders, founder of the hospice movement
Selections from Dying, A Book of Comfort
For those dying, for caregivers, and for the bereaved
Girls and science
Cool science sites
Cool science sites
New Formulas for America's Workforce: Girls in Science and Engineering
Best practices for teaching science--to strengthen the science workforce.
Chicks in academia take on Larry Summers
Some links and a selection
Medical mysteries, patient stories, and practical links
The boy in the plastic bubble
John Travolta played the boy in the movie. The real story ended far differently.
A bad heart and housemaid's knee
Thin little Marian had a cholesterol problem most people have never heard of.
Do you know about the nation's research hospital?
Make a note. You or a loved one may need it some day. The NIH Clinical Center is a well-kept secret, a huge biomedical research hospital where patient care is free and where medical breakthroughs change lives worldwide.
Anatomy of medical error
Prepare for skill-based slips and rule- and knowledge-based errors
Online Shopping
Pat and Sarah's Great Shopping Links
Great places to start your shopping.
Organizational histories
YPO: The First 50 Years
A frank history of the Young Presidents’ Organization.
By Design (Crown, the BMW of forklifts)
The little lift truck that could — a story of brilliant marketing in America's heartland.
Practical matters
Learning Styles
Identify children's learning styles and improve their ability to learn.
Homework without tears
Six weeks to hassle-free homework.
Teens and alcohol
Why parents should be concerned.
Scared speechless? Join Toastmasters
Public speaking is a craft, not an art. It can be learned.
The truth about dry cleaning
Can you wash it if it says "dry clean"?
Selling your diamonds
Fact vs. fantasy
Starting a small business
One woman's story.
How to buy upholstered furniture
Don't focus on the fabric.
Writing or telling life stories
What is an ethical will? A legacy letter
A loving testament, or legacy letter, sharing your life experiences and lessons with the next generation
Michael Kilian's message of hope for a newborn
Read aloud at a memorial service decades later
Storycatching: Telling or recording your life story, or the history of your family or organization
Everyone has a story to tell. What's keeping you from telling yours? Become a storykeeper or personal historian or find one.
Pat's writing workshops and presentations
Learn to write articles, reports, ethical wills, or life stories (memoirs and beyond).
Eulogy for Eleanor
Mom — hardworking, sassy, and full of surprises
Washington Biography Group
Mutual support and discussion
An American Biography
Social history through the life of an ordinary Midwestern businessman.

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